People seem to believe that they can simply think their way straight to success. They mistakenly believe that if they just think about their dreams often enough and vividly enough that—poof!—they’ll just come true. Actually that is happening by the Law of Attraction.
But life is not a magic trick.
If you told a starving child who had not had a single meal in five days how to use the Law of Attraction to manifest a meal for themselves, how well do you think it would work out for them?
Clearly, there’s more to it than envisioning what you want.
If you want to know what it really takes to achieve your greatest goals and ambitions, below you will find some steps that will outline how to use the Law of Attraction the proper way.
What Is the Law of Attraction?
The Law of Attraction is based on the idea that we attract what we are focused on. It revolves around the idea that the universe will offer us what our energy is directed toward.
As mentioned above, just thinking about something is unlikely to offer any solid results, but once you start focusing on something, you are more likely to take action to make it happen, which will most certainly bring some results.
Here’s how to use the Law of Attraction to start down your path to success.
1. Focus Your Thoughts in the Direction of Your Dreams
If you take a pebble and toss it into a pond, what happens?
As soon as the pebble strikes the surface of the water, you get a series of ripples or waves, which spread outwards in a circular direction, until they get to the shoreline and seem to stop.
Two stones of different sizes and weights tossed in at the same time, at different places but in close proximity, will both create a series of ripples, which will eventually merge with one another.
When the two sets of ripples converge, there seems to be a bit of a struggle as to which one overcomes the other. As far as the human eye can see, if the ripples are the same size, both seem to stop or merge when they collide.
However, if one set of ripples is larger than the other, the larger set sweeps over the smaller set and creates waves in the wake of the smaller ripples.
Let’s consider this analogy in relation to our own thought-patterns and mental impulses.
Imagine you’ve got two stones in each hand.
- The stone in your left hand is labeled “Failure”
- The stone in your right hand is labeled “Success”
The weight of each stone is in direct proportion to the amount of *thought* you give its label.
So, how heavy are your stones?
If your “failure” stone is heavier, then its ripples will simply stop or take over the ripples created by your stone labeled “success.”
But if your “success” stone is heavier, then that will be the one that takes over.
It’s important to keep this in mind as you put the Law of Attraction to use towards making your dreams happen: ensure that you focus your thoughts on successfully achieving those dreams more often than you focus on the fear of failure that you might experience if you don’t.
2. Get Specific [ Law of Attraction ]
What do you want? What do your dreams look like, specifically?
Simply saying, “I want to work at a job I love” isn’t going to get you there. Why? It’s not specific enough. What does your dream job look like and what are you passionate about? What would make you happy to get out of bed each morning? If you change that statement to something like, “I want to work at an NGO where I can help people every day,” you are getting much closer to attracting a specific type of job and taking actionable steps to get there.
If you want to make the Law of Attraction work for you, you have got to get specific. What is it exactly that you want? Figure it out down to every specific detail and write it down. If you don’t like to write, make a vision board that will help you visualize what your goals and dreams look like. Get creative with the way you present your specific goals, but make sure they’re visible each day.
Once you’ve done that, it’s time to start taking action towards making it happen.
3. Put Some Actions Where Your Thoughts Are
Many people make the mistake of looking at the Law of Attraction as if it were a stand-alone solution to making their dreams a reality. They believe that they can make a vision board and use positive thinking to achieve success.
But these folks need a wake-up call, because positive thinking is not enough. It will never be enough.
If we THINK positive, but we still FEEL negative, then how will we ACT?
Your thoughts, actions, and feelings are like a three-legged stool. Positive thinking is powerful, but only when we think of it as one of the three necessary legs that reinforces the stool we’re sitting on.
The key here, when it comes to how to use the Law of Attraction, is to focus on being as congruent as possible between your thoughts, feelings, and actions.
Once you have your thoughts pointed in the right direction, start taking steps toward those thoughts. Are you visualizing that amazing European vacation you want to take next year? Start putting away money for it. Are you thinking about how nice it would be to have a bigger circle of friends? Get out of the house once a week to see where that takes you.
The steps you take don’t have to be big ones, but you do need to move in the direction of your goals if you ever want them to become reality.
The Bottom Line [ Law of Attraction ]
It’s not the Law of Attraction or positive thinking alone that drives our success in life — it’s about being in positive congruence between the way we think, act, and feel.
Start with a positive mindset, and let that push you toward actions that will make your dreams a reality.